Couples have traditionally opted to dance to their favorite love song using a basic step. However, the newest trend among more adventurous couples is to perform a finely choreographed opening number. This usually entails hours of lessons and hard work, but can be well worth the time and effort. A dance routine is fun to perform and will wow your guests. One of our good friends did this and while it was a really cool thing to watch, I opted not to do one of these Choreographed First Dances during my first dance. My wedding was busy and stressful enough to plan in the weeks before - I didn’t need 1 more thing to throw into the mix!

If you feel that you lack the coordination for a complicated number, you can still learn an easier routine. Ask your instructor to stick to basic steps with small touches of flair, such as a couple of twirls or a dip. You can also learn popular ballroom dances, such as the tango, foxtrot, and waltz.